Regrets? Who, me?
Heck yeah I have regrets! I wish I could do my kids over again. I wasn’t mentally prepared for child one – and my lifecycle and pace of living was such that I didn’t get– change that to “make” –enough time to spend with them individually. Too much time frittered away on pursuit of career. It didn’t feel ‘frittered’ then, but it feels like it now.
The money is gone, and so is the time with the kids.
What do we do going forward? Our best. Examine our life, make adjustments, and do our best – it’s the best we can do.